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                              If you think you are beaten - you are.
                              If you think you dare not - you don’t.

                              If you’d like to win but think you can’t,
                              It’s almost certain you won’t.

                              If you think you will lose, you’ve lost,
                              For out in the world you’ll find
                              Success begins with a fellow’s will.
                              It’s all in the state of your mind.

                              If you think you’re outclassed, you are.
                              You’ve got to think high to rise.

 You’ve got to be sure of yourself before
                              You can ever win a prize.

 Life’s battles don’t always go
                              To the stronger or faster man,
                              But sooner or later the one who wins
                              Is the one who thinks he can.

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated
   that the kids aren’t old enough and we’ll be more content
       when they are.
                        

After that, we’re frustrated that we have teenagers to deal
   with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of
            that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be
                     complete when our spouse gets his or her act together,
         when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation,or 
when we retire.

The truth is, there’s no better time to be happy than right
      now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled
             with challenges. It’s best to admit this to yourself
                    and decide to be happy anyway. Happiness is the way.
           So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure
          it more because you shared it with someone special,
           special enough to spend your time with… and remember
                          that time waits for no one.

So, stop waiting

–until
                          your car or home is paid off
                          –until you get a new car or home
                          –until your kids leave the house
                          –until you go back to school
                          –until you lose ten pounds
                          –until you gain ten pounds
                          –until you finish school
                          –until you get a divorce
                          –until you get married
                          –until you have kids
                          –until you retire
                          –until summer
                          –until spring
                          –until winter
                          –until fall
                          –until you pass away…

There is no better time than right now to be happy.

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

So — work like you don’t need money, Love like you’ve
            never been hurt, And dance like no one’s watching.

                  Written by: Crystal Boyd

guys check this out…

Share this with other women and men
(just so they know)… You’ll make
someone smile, another rethink her
choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a
special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire
lifetime to forget them.

                               Cherish things while you still have them,
                                before they’re gone,
                       and you realize how precious they really are.
                               
                               

                          Life can only be understood backwards,
                                  but it must be lived forwards.

                                  Everything in life is temporary.
                                  So if things are going good,
                                  enjoy it because it won’t last forever.
                                  And if things are going bad,
                                  don’t worry because it won’t last
                            Forever either.

                                     Destiny is not a matter of chance,
                                  it is a matter of choice;
                                  it is not a thing to be waited for,
                                  it is a thing to be achieved.

                        A journey of a thousand miles
                                  begins with a single step.

                                    Never cross a bridge
                                  without knowing how to swim the tides.

                                 If  you could not add years to your life
                                  Add life to your years.

Ada kekuatan didalam cinta,
orang yang sanggup memberikan cinta adalah orang yang
kuat. Karena ia bisa mengalahkan keinginannya untuk
mementingkan diri sendiri . . .

Ada kekuatan didalam penguasaan diri,
orang yang bisa menguasai diri adalah orang yang kuat.
Karena dia mampu mengendalikan segala nafsu duniawi. .

Et dans 150 ans, on s’en souviendra pas
De ta première ride, de nos mauvais choix,
De la vie qui nous baise, de tous ces marchands d’armes,
Des types qui votent les lois là bas au gouvernement,
De ce monde qui pousse, de ce monde qui crie,
Du temps qui avance, de la mélancolie,
La chaleur des baisers et cette pluie qui coule,
Et de l’amour blessé et de tout ce qu’on nous roule,
Alors souris.

Dans 150 ans, on s’en souviendra pas
De la vieillesse qui prend, de leurs signes de croix,
De l’enfant qui se meurt, des vallées du tiers monde,
Du salaud de chasseur qui descend la colombe,
De ce que t’étais belle, et des rives arrachées,
Des années sans sommeil, 100 millions de femmes et
Des portes qui se referment de t’avoir vue pleurer,
De la course solennelle qui condamne sans ciller,
Alors souris.

Et dans 150 ans, on n’y pensera même plus
A ce qu’on a aimé, à ce qu’on a perdu,
Allez vidons nos bières pour les voleurs des rues !
Finir tous dans la terre, mon dieu ! Quelle déconvenue.
Et regarde ces squelettes qui nous regardent de travers,
Et ne fais pas la tête, ne leur fais pas la guerre,
Il leur restera rien de nous, pas plus que d’eux,
J’en mettrais bien ma main à couper ou au feu,
Alors souris.

Et dans 150 ans, mon amour, toi et moi,
On sera doucement, dansant, 2 oiseaux sur la croix,
Dans ce bal des classés, encore je vois large,
P’t'être qu’on sera repassés dans un très proche, un naufrage,
Mais y a rien d’autre à dire, je veux rien te faire croire,
Mon amour, mon amour, j’aurai le mal de toi,
Mais y a rien d’autre à dire, je veux rien te faire croire,
Mon amour, mon amour, j’aurai le mal de toi,
Mais que veux-tu ?…

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to
ever let you down probably will.

You will have your heart broken, probably more than once, and it’s
harder every time. You’ll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when
yours was broken.

You’ll fight with your best friend.

You’ll blame a new love for things an old one did.

You’ll cry because time is passing too fast, and you’ll eventually lose
someone you love.

So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you’ve never
been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of
happiness you’ll never get back. So send this to all of your friends in
the next 5 minutes and a miracle will happen tonight.

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot; who calls you back
when you hang up on him; who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead; who wants to show you off to
the world when you are in your sweats; who holds your hand in front of
his friends. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how
much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.  Wait for the
one who turns to his friends and says, "..that’s her."

If u open this you HAVE to repost it, guy or girl, or you will have bad

 
luck for the rest of your life!!..
If I don’t get this back I guess your not my friend, if you have a
lot of love for someone. copy and send this to your whole list and in
five mins your true love will call or message you.

Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they like you.
Something good will happen to you at approx. 1:42pm tomorrow, it could

be anywhere.
So get ready for the biggest shock of your life.

I’m In Marseille now !!!! Wow, i’m not even think to come here before, but that’s My destiny i’m here now hehehehee …, I just came to Marseille last Tuesday, in the train station of Saint Charles, Marseille, it was Gusnedy one of My friend come’s from indonesia who is student here at Université Paul Cézanne, Aix Marseille III, he take a Master of Intelligence Economique. He’s very nice, smart and also very honest person, i like him coz he’s so original, i’m sure he’ll be a succes person someday with his brilliant ideas in his mind !

I’m feel very Lucky coz since i’ve decided to close "my old book" ( it’s mean to forget all the unless thing’s before that had happened with me) i become an strong woman who’s always trying to get everything’s good in my life, i mean i try to have something’s simple but can give some knowledges for me everytime, coz for me they are so important for me to be a Good Person, that’s why now i’m trying to handle all problems so efficace and also find the solution as soon as possible, beside i try to make something so simpely, easy ect, that’s why i’m not an complicated woman actually, just sometime some person can’t understand what i mean and and what i’m thinking of ????***:::!! héhéhéhhééé ! so Just try to understand me  and i’ll show you that Life is so beautiful that we have to try to stand up and let it flow like a waterfall but we’re the one who decide what we’ll gonna do!

By the way, ehhmm Marseille is beautiful city also, there are so many historical places here, i’ve visited some places here like " Vieux Port", Notredame de La Gare, et Marche Capuchin, the weather ws not really good since i came but it’s okay, still warm and sometime the sun was shining, i was very happy coz it’s rarely happend in Paris, Ughhhh In Paris there’s no Sun and everyting’s is so  Gray, ehmm you know Paris is really Strange hehehehhe …No one can understand why, but only some people who know’s why …hehehehe Looks like me ;p I know why ! so you want to know why? ask me so i’ll tell u !

Ehmm Now talk about the Boys hahahahhahaa, you know…. The Girls "Just wanna Have fun" By Cindy Lauper! wow …They are very cute, so different from Parisian hahahahhaa …so so …different!!! More Nice, Macho, warm ect …i think they are mixed from arabian, france, and maybe some of them mixed from Spain or italian races! ;p ( Maybe) ….hahahhahahha…!!! Cool ..Cool Great Created and Mixed !!! and also for the girls!

Today we were hanging around to the Notredame de la Gare, i was so excited coz the church is really great, i can see everything’s in Marseille city from the TOP, That’s Great, Marseille is so beautiful !!! i love u …!!!! after that we went to a Cafe name " Olypia Marseille " (OM) just in the front of Vieux Port where we can see many boats, and normally we can buy the tickets of Football Match here, and Guess What Guys???? I’m very happy coz in the cafe where we took 2 glass of beer’s, they were the footballers of Bolton Club from England !!!! before we don’t even think that they are the footballers, we were thinking before that they are just some tourists From England that’s it! but when i went to the toilet, i spoke with 2 Girls from Birmingham, England, They are very nice girls, we were talking for a while and they said to me that this is their first visit In Marseille, and they were very supprised when i told to them me either, and i came here just for vacation, actually i’m living in Paris, They were very happy when i told them if someday they would visit Paris, I’ll be their best Guide ;p, and they said "OK"!! and they will call me when they get there ! then they ask My number cellphone! I’ll gave them my number and also my mails so they can contact me so easily, and Hopelly that they’ll introduce me to The Footballers also héhéhéhéhéhé (ehmm Evil in My mind hihihihihihihi).

By the way i’d better to stop now, coz i feel very sleepy now, it’s 00.39, and i have to thinking for tomorrow which nice places that i can visit a little bit, coz i have to go back to Narbonne at 18.45 tommorrow evening, and it’s take only 2 hours by Train TER, and i have planning to Go to Toulouse city if it’s possible ;p, ehmm Nice Trip To some city in the south of France, this vacations makes me so feel better and i have no stress anymore !!! ehhhhhmmmmmm I feel So Well and Fresh !!! and also I have so many ideas and Projects that i’ll bring to Paris, hehehehheee …!!!!! See Ya! and Big Kiss From Marseille City !
* *  FaFa Mimi * *